Lemon Balm: The Calming Garden Herb Everyone Should Grow

Lemon balm is a calming mint-family herb often used for stress, sleep, mood, and digestion.

2/28/20262 min read

green leaf in macro lens
green leaf in macro lens

Lemon Balm: The Calming Garden Herb Everyone Should Grow

One of my favorite summer moments is stepping out onto my deck and catching the fresh lemony scent drifting from my lemon balm plant.

It’s one of those herbs that instantly feels peaceful.

I fell in love with it after trying it in tea, and now it’s a staple in my Blissful Night relaxing blend. At this point, lemon balm has earned a permanent space in my garden — and this year it’s getting an even bigger one.

What is Lemon Balm?

Lemon Balm (Melissa officinalis) is a member of the mint family (Lamiaceae) — which explains why it grows vigorously and comes back faithfully each year.

The leaves are the medicinal part of the plant. Traditionally, lemon balm is known as a gentle herb that supports the nervous system, helping the body relax while also lifting mood.

Herbal Actions

Lemon balm is considered:

  • Antiviral

  • Relaxing nervine

  • Mild mood-supporting herb

  • Antispasmodic

  • Mildly sedating

  • Diaphoretic (supports healthy fever response)

  • Antimicrobial

  • Carminative (digestive soothing)

Common Uses

People often reach for lemon balm when they need calm support for everyday stress.

It may help:

  • Promote restful sleep

  • Ease occasional anxiety or tension

  • Gently lift mood

  • Soothe an upset stomach

  • Comfort minor skin irritations (bug bites, scrapes, stings)

  • Support the body during viral challenges such as cold sores, influenza, shingles, etc.

Some research has also explored its calming effects in individuals experiencing agitation related to cognitive decline.

Ways to Use Lemon Balm

Lemon balm is incredibly versatile and beginner-friendly.

You can prepare it as:

  1. Tea (my favorite) – Fresh or dried leaves steeped in hot water

  2. Tincture – Long-term nervous system support

  3. Oil Infusion – For lotions, balms, and salve

  4. Essential Oil – Aromatic use only (proper dilution required)

Safety Notes

  • May interact with thyroid conditions or medications

  • Avoid during pregnancy unless advised by a healthcare professional

  • Do not ingest essential oil

  • Always dilute essential oil before applying to skin

Lemon balm is more than just a pretty green plant — it’s a gentle daily ally for calm, comfort, and simple herbal care at home.

Sometimes healing really does begin one plant at a time.

Courtney
Just Nurse Court

Disclaimer

This information is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Please consult your healthcare provider before starting any herbal protocol.

References

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